building influence

The Paths to Influence

Influence grows gradually—just like equity. Each intentional interaction, thoughtful gesture, and act of support is like adding a coin to the stack. The fastest path to building relational equity is through personal investment—showing up, listening deeply, and adding value without expecting instant returns. Over time, these consistent efforts compound into

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Language Of Commitment

Language Of Commitment

Here are my takeaways from the L. David Marquet book Leadership is Language of Commitment. Commitment is essential to being able to collaborate effectively. Commitment comes from within so it invites full participation and engagement. On the other hand, compliance is forced by external sources and invites doing just enough

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Improvement And Language

Improvement And Language

Improvement comes from egoless scrutiny of past actions and deep reflective thinking about what could be better, more efficient, more relevant, more resilient, and more responsive. To look for ways to improve requires open-minded inquisitiveness and curiosity from everyone on the team.  Although contemplation and self-reflection are key to learning,

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Connection and Language

Connection and Language

Here are my takeaways from L. David Marquet’s book Leadership is Language about Connection. Connection: Connection is caring When we connect, we do not judge from a position of power; we walk alongside from a position of encouragement. Connections help provide psychological safety, where differing options are valued and everyone

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